Online personals and dating can be a very fun venue towards meeting that special someone. However, one’s safety should still be the top priority. Did you know that most online dating services do not pre-screen their users? This means that they cannot ensure that the people you meet through their sites are safe enough to be dealt with.
Here are a 6 things to make online dating safety and more fun:
1. Anonymity Raise Safety, For Awhile – Giving your real email address, personal web site URL, last name, phone number, place of work, home address, or any other information that identifies you in your profile or first few emails that you exchange with other members makes you an easy victim. Turn off your signature file, or make sure that it does not have any identifying information, when sending emails to a member through your own email.
2. Lean on Common Sense – Trusting your online acquaintances easily can make you easy bait. If your gut feel tells you that someone is lying, there’s a big chance that you are right. Look for someone that deserves your trust. Online intimacy is very dangerous. Don’t indulge yourself in such endeavor at the click of a mouse. Logical thinking will save you a lot of trouble.
3. Call First, Don’t Drool Just Yet – A person’s skills when it comes to communicating can be easily gauged through a phone call. Though it might cost you some moolah, it is worth it to make sure you don’t fall for someone who is anti-social. However, to make things a lot safer, use a cell phone or a pay phone instead of using your land line. Unless you are absolutely comfortable with the person you are calling, don’t give your home phone number at once.
4. Delay the Meeting – It is advisable to take your time and get to know the person as much as possible first before saying yes to a face to face meeting. You are free to change your mind if anything feels not right.
5. Psychoanalyze or End up with a Psycho – You should pay attention to any signs of intense frustration, anger or any displays of aggressive behavior. If the person is trying to control or pressure you, stop the communication. Here are the other alarming manifestations of bad behavior that will make you aware that you are in danger.
6. Offline Meeting – Before meeting your online friend, tell someone reliable where you will go and when you will return. Leaving your date’s name and phone number is a good idea. Bring your mobile phone. Don’t allow your date to pick you up at home. Have your own transportation and meet somewhere public. During the date, don’t leave your drink unattended.
To make online dating work, it is imperative that you exercise caution. Have ample time to get to know the other person, don’t rush yourself or allow anyone to rush you into doing anything. It’s better to be safe and dateless for a while than sorry.